November 26, 2023, 71, Goldsboro —

Elbert Ray Holder, 71, went to be with his Lord on Sunday, November 26, 2023, at Wayne UNC Healthcare in Goldsboro.

Ray enjoyed his life to the fullest and there was never a dull moment. He was one of a kind and had a determination that you could only hope for. Ray was an inspiration, to say the least, overcoming his disability and limitations to achieve so much in life.

Ray was not given a lot of hope at birth but God had a different plan. Doctors told his parents that he would not live past 12 and if he would live past 12 he would be confined to his bed. Ray defied them all by graduating high school, attending college, running businesses in furniture and automotive sales, and serving at AP Parts for many years.

Ray taught himself to ride horses, shoot pool, and even shag dance. Ray loved old cars but watching old shows like Gunsmoke, Andy Griffith, and Matlock gave him a lot of joy. He also enjoyed listening to good music, especially the “Oldies but Goldies” and good beach music.

Ray had faith and believed in the goodness of God. As a member of Bethel Church, Ray loved being a part of the mission work at the church and supported it in many ways. Family was most important to Ray and time spent with his son was always the best.

His family finds comfort in knowing that Ray’s faith carries him to his eternal home. The memories, stories, life, and humor of Ray Holder will live on in his family and friends.

A service to celebrate Ray’s life will be held on Thursday, November 30, 2023, at 6:00 p.m. in the sanctuary of Bethel Church with his brother, Rev. Steve Holder, officiating. The family will greet friends following the service at the church.

Ray is survived by his son, Anthony Holder, and wife, Heather of Fremont; sister, Christine Daly of Goldsboro; brother, Steve Holder and wife, Sharon of Pikeville; nephews, Rich Holder and wife, Jessica, Blake Holder and wife, Sarah and Matthew Holder; and several great nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be given for missions at
Bethel Church
2308 N. William Street
Goldsboro, NC 27530